Be yourself.

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lenneahishellafckinbomb:

Every relationship goes through phases. Where or how each stage develops is ultimately up to each person. While we hope for the best, we often can’t avoid the inevitable.

Stage 1 [Meeting]-You would do absolutely anything to talk to that special person. It can be pathetic, but then again. . It can also work out for the better

Stage 2 [The chase]- Some say it’s the best part. . All you want to do is know more about that person, hang out with them,and they would be the only one you want to talk to. And everytime you saw them, BUTTERFLIES. They were everything you wanted. Then finally you get together to begin. .

Stage 3 [Honeymoon]- Everyone calls it this for a good reason; It was a time you could fully express your affection for one another, and do all the things you wanted to do as a couple. It’s almost like a dream come true. The person you wanted to be with so badly was finally yours.
- Eventually, the fire cools and both of you start to simmer down. You’ll know every detail their daily lives, and will have a billion pictures of each other. And like any other normal couple, you enter . .

Stage 4 [Comfortable]- Now, being comfortable isn’t necessarily bad; It’s when you could truly be yourselves. But, it depends on what you do with that comfort. Some use it positively; Continuing to work at their relationship, and grow with each other.. But others allow it to create distance.
- Whether it’s taking each other for granted , or people changing over time. . Bottom line is, someone stops trying, and feelings aren’t as strong as before.

Stage 5 [Tolerance]- When you get to this stage, you can’t really believe it, and you’re pretty disappointed. Somehow, the person you thought you were so crazy about, has turned into someone who wasn’t so special anymore. It happens so gradually, you don’t see it coming; And there you are. . Tolerating each other. Arguing is one thing, feeling dissatisfied and unhappy with the relationship is another. You try various times to fix things, and make changes. But it’s just not good enough. You become one of those relationships  where it isn’t bad, but it isn’t great. And let me tell you, that’s never a good way to describe a relationship.

Stage 6 [Downhill]- The effort to try to make things work, just isn’t worth it anymore; Problems continue, arguments don’t get solved. Then you don’t even remember what you argued about? It’s sad to say that you are close to the end. What’s next is what happens to everyone at one point. The end of the line. The worst stage ever. .

Stage 7 [Breaking Up]- You don’t know when it’ll happen, or how but you hope to end off on good terms. If that’s even possible. But that’s when you will start a new path. . One that leads to where you started; S T R A N G E R S. The change will be so drastic that you’ll want to get back together, just to restore what’s there. But sometimes this doesn’t happen, and distance will grow.
- Soon enough the two of you will move on and find someone new. And even when you both get over the past and try to remain friends, things will never be the same. Your lives will continue on in different ways. And everything you shared will just be friendly memories from so long ago, that you’ll question if it ever even happened.  

I remember this video!

I swear me & Hash going through stages 5 & 6 A LOT. But we nevaa gonna through stage 7 :) <3